|Exaggerated MUCH >_< photo from HERE.|
I was thinking of something good to post while preparing lunch earlier today. [Mind you, I'm a good cook! hehe] Okay, so I was peeling the onions when I accidentally cut my finger. I looked very closely to see if it really was cut because it doesn't hurt at all. But when I saw that blood is starting to ooze out of my epidermis (LOL), sige skin na lang, I also started to feel the pain. Was it only psychological?
After washing away the blood, I began to associate this situation with love. (nyahehe) :P
All of us had been hurt and each has their own way of coping. Some would find another person to cover up the pain. Some would cry their heart out until they feel better. Few may project/blame other people to lessen the burden they're carrying. But most of us would find ways to divert our attention. We'll try to ignore the source of the pain because the more we see it, the more it hurts.
I resume peeling/slicing the rest of the veggies I'd use, but this time, I felt a little nervous. I was afraid that I might cut my finger (
which is stupid, yet true) and hurt myself again.
The same thing happens with love. Once we get hurt, we become afraid of trying again. We start to guard our heart so much and push away the people who might hurt us. This is just normal, I think. However, we should not stay in this situation too long or we might end up isolated from the rest of the world. Once we're done crying, we should stand up and gather the shattered pieces of our heart back.
I looked at the veggies laid on the table and picked up the one nearest to me. No hassle because it's already right there. But when I peeled its skin off, I found out it's rotten inside. Damaged good huh?
Love wisely. Do not be blinded by what you see. Do not hurry things 'coz you might end up getting hurt again. As the song says,
"You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes"
God has plans for you. Better than what you want. I bet you prefer first class goods rather than damaged ones. hehe... :)
Wanna try my sinigang? It's de-li-cious.
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